A_521 - In life it is possible to react to emotions and sensations in many ways: with rejection, with acceptance... we also know, from experience, that when you meet unknown people of the opposite sex in good health conditions it often happens that there are allusions to sex or sexual interactions of some kind that happen spontaneously and that you don't really know how to behave. A suggestion I can give you is this: for any person of the opposite sex you meet, ALWAYS AND BASICALLY refuse any sexual approach at least for the first 3 months of knowing each other. At least let there be only friendship, disinterested, for at least the first 3 months, because this climate is very useful for making people grow, for them to heal, to understand and get to know each other better, and it is better to reject any predatory instinct that may arise, because people, all of them, need to make their own assessments, not to be scared and not be treated like prey. Unlike what happens in nature, in which animals sometimes barely meet a partner, and in any case there is always a courtship phase, since we are generally quite dense in cities, to foster friendships it is essential to maintain this approach: first always and only the friendship, obligatorily, for at least 3 months. Then, generally, if the healthier person decides to carry the slightly shabbier one on his shoulders even in the long term, then you can think about starting a family together...
Note: if in a moment like this you feel you might not be able to control yourself, the most important thing is to physically remove yourself from the other person right away — leave the room, change environment, call someone. Release the tension in a way that doesn't hurt anyone: a brisk walk, deep breathing, intense physical activity. If you notice these impulses recurring, talking to a professional (a psychologist or a support helpline) is the most effective way to protect yourself and others.